Its interesting, she also said that she might want to come back to work for us, and is already having second thoughts about starting the new job next week. Our D.O said that she was thinking "uh no way we'd want you to come back know knowing you're thinking crazy stuff like that!"

I think more than anything it just frustrates me because I know real racism and sexism obviously exists, defaulting to a mental position of assuming it exists where there is no evidence is a sad thing.