every move in the house, whether dressed/undressed, private or public. He's standing there 24/7 at every window recording everything. What he records will end up on the internet with your family fully exposed, for all manner of nefarious purposes.

Your "saintly" wife thinks the best course of action is to just ignore him and let him do it so you won't have to raise your voice?

Not saintly, silly. And you should not even have to ask her, you should be out there beating this guy to a bloody stump and calling the police. Yet, apparently you won't because you obviously don't really care about your family and would rather get your deposit back and not risk a bad review.

Good grief.

*maybe she wants you to man up and handle business without asking her permission.