It's clear the wife has the "frame" in the relationship.

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Oct 2, 2022
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Are there some LDS female spouses who must live in Utah?

calvindyer

10/2/22 3:30pm

Yes, but probably has more to do with being close to family

JOPE

10/2/22 3:33pm

Yeah her family is in St. George and his is in Vegas

calvindyer

10/2/22 3:52pm

Does she have a secret second husband in Cedar City?

BYUtka

10/2/22 3:33pm

Yikes. I’ve never understood how some people are so dead set on living in their

TheMediator

10/2/22 3:33pm

When we went to Oregon for the game a few weeks ago, my son

crack

10/2/22 3:38pm

You really can't understand why most people on the on the planet prefer to live

Plato

10/2/22 3:40pm

Listen to this song. It may provide some inspiration into the concept

greatbam

10/2/22 3:50pm

Does this guy have a small business services firm in LV?

Carnac

10/2/22 3:34pm

No, he is a teacher just with lots of time in the district.

calvindyer

10/2/22 3:53pm

Members of the church are statistically matrilocal far more than current society

Courtimedes

10/2/22 3:34pm

Source?

benny1982

10/2/22 3:35pm

I wrote a paper about it...ten years ago.

Courtimedes

10/2/22 3:40pm

I started to look through my papers to find my sources-

Courtimedes

10/2/22 3:54pm

No big deal. I was only mildly curious. 😃

benny1982

10/2/22 4:06pm

Interesting. My mission president would talk about

calvindyer

10/2/22 3:56pm

In other words the overwhelming majority of LDS men are beta. Got it.

gopman

10/2/22 3:48pm

Uh, what?

Courtimedes

10/2/22 3:57pm

100% of women find 80% of men unattractive & want to get with the top 20%.

gopman

10/2/22 4:24pm

I'm familiar with Dr. Peterson's work on the subject;

Courtimedes

10/2/22 5:04pm

It's about frame. Men who are deemed attractive

gopman

10/2/22 5:18pm

Sir, I think you are buying into a false description of relationships.

Courtimedes

10/2/22 6:00pm

So you're not attracted to your spouse/ significant other? And when I say

gopman

10/2/22 8:12pm

Finally I'll add that our Heavenly Father intended

gopman

10/2/22 8:16pm

Again, this is a very different thing than what you were previously discussing.

Courtimedes

10/2/22 8:35pm

PUA was all about attraction (aka game). Women

gopman

10/2/22 8:45pm

Thanks. Your arguments have been succinct and clear.

chrisoc13

10/3/22 9:07am

It strikes me as an innately lonely outlook-

Courtimedes

10/3/22 10:03am

Well said.

chrisoc13

10/3/22 10:05am

Few things make people easier to ignore than using "alpha" and "beta"

vagabonder

10/2/22 4:00pm

Human history & evolutionary biology say otherwise. And no

gopman

10/2/22 4:26pm

I didn't realize you were an evolutionary biologist. While you're at it...

TheBlueCougar

10/2/22 4:54pm

Nice straw man! I like it. But you're still unable

gopman

10/2/22 5:24pm

Let's think about this a little more.

TheBlueCougar

10/2/22 9:41pm

Frame. That's all that matters. Who has it in this stated relationship? It's

gopman

10/2/22 10:21pm

This is all Reddit pseudo science nonsense

Memmo

10/2/22 5:27pm

Jane Goodall is pseudo science nonsense?

gopman

10/2/22 5:45pm

I’m from Utah, wife is from NC. She was very clear that she wasn’t living in UT

Pretorian

10/2/22 7:12pm

Did you observe differences between members from Utah/West vs elsewhere?

j20

10/3/22 7:41pm

Nutjob

Backcountry

10/2/22 3:34pm

That’s pathetic of his wife to insist on that.

HiLife

10/2/22 3:35pm

She certainly has the "frame".

gopman

10/2/22 3:47pm

She went to become a seminary/institute teacher

calvindyer

10/2/22 6:10pm

Definitely a thing. The cords are strong

Memmo

10/2/22 3:35pm

I dated a girl that was the opposite. Wanted nothing to do with Utah.

Jay_L

10/2/22 3:35pm

My BIL's wife insisted on it. She was born and raised SLC. All her family lives there

BIG XII Coug

10/2/22 3:37pm

No pressure on you men that are responsible for providing no matter where u live

Don Carlton

10/2/22 3:39pm

Big 🚩

letthewookieewin

10/2/22 3:39pm

Yep. Theyll be divorced within 3 years

Backcountry

10/2/22 3:44pm

Yes. Our neighbor worked in Vegas for 30 years Monday to Thursday and was an

JAGA97

10/2/22 3:41pm

It's clear the wife has the "frame" in the relationship.

gopman

10/2/22 3:45pm

As long as they are happy, good for them.

panacablue

10/2/22 3:50pm

I mostly agree.

Courtimedes

10/2/22 4:07pm

Once my wife realized that Utah is an employment black hole

Big McLargeHuge

10/2/22 3:51pm

Depends on the sector probably. For my field Utah is an excellent market.

BlooCoog

10/2/22 4:22pm

RE: Depends on the sector probably. For my field Utah is an excellent market.

Courtimedes

10/2/22 4:24pm

no worries, they won't be married for much longer I'm thinking

Digital Gangsta

10/2/22 3:54pm

My business partner moved to Utah this Summer and flies back weekly to work his

PCCoug

10/2/22 3:57pm

Some of it has to do with wanting their children to have more LDS friends. It is

BlooCoog

10/2/22 4:21pm

There are more than people would believe. Some demand certain small towns.

Pergamino

10/2/22 4:25pm

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