But I absolutely love my Model 3 LR.

Definitely get the LR.
Pass on the upgraded wheels (more expensive and less comfortable ride).
Pass on full self driving.
Get the all weather mats.
Get some custom tint done when delivered. I had the rear and side windows darkened with ceramic tent and the windshield and roof protected with ~30% tint, which doesn’t darken the look, but blocks UV and markedly diminishes solar radiation helping keep the car cooler.

Maybe the best commuting car out there. Super fun to drive, extremely economical to own.