are invisible to her again.
Your romantic relationship was only temporary until her alpha male returned. She'll end up an alpha widow though because - as he has shown - alphas have many to choose from and don't stick around while she has very few options because she will not look below her self perceived value.

On the good side you can work and raise your own value while hers only diminishes with age. Be wise.

Absolutely no correlation with Pope's coaching story.