Joe Alwyn. British dude is right- he hated how famous and in the light she was. He wanted nothing to do with any of that. Lover is her album written about being in their relationship and in love with him. It’s thought that this recent album is about their breakup and the rough parts of their relationship and breakup. There’s also speculation some songs are about Matty Healy (a member of the 1975) and their breakup as they dated briefly after she and Joe broke up.