impactful to them.
For example - if I die at 85, my youngest kid will be 55. By 55 I’d hope they have their stuff figured out. If I could have used some of that money to give them a head start, rather than a bonus as they near retirement, it will be a lot better for them financially (generally speaking).
At this point I’m planning to help my children with college, first home, perhaps cars…I’m not going To hoard wealth and then drop it on them when they are grandparents.