I was always more on the Duke side. One of my best friends (I'll call him "Joe") was getting a doctorate there (and is now teaching at BYU).
Funny story: my oldest daughter was born when Joe and his wife were good friends with me and my wife at BYU. He held the baby and that sort of thing. The baby grew up and eventually went to BYU, where Joe was now teaching. When she took his class she introduced herself to him. He was gobsmacked. He told her that he had held her as an infant and that he remembers her visiting his home when she was about four. He said she made him feel old.