When he said, "We passed the ball too frickin' much" I realized that he won't be able to ever get it done.

If all the things that have frustrated me this season, this was the worst. How does a head coach make that kind of a statement after a game? If your OC is throwing then all too much, tell him to stop. If he won't, tell him to hit the showers.

You're the head coach. You have final say in what happens. And if you don't, them maybe you aren't fit to be a head coach.