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Apr 20, 2019
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IceBlue
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It's important to not compare. Remember you're
Writing a new chapter, not reliving a past one. Give yourself permission to move forward.
That being said, I get it. It's much harder to do than say. Good luck.
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When women fall in love with you
Twin Roots
4/19/19 11:13pm
I'd give it a little time if you're still feeling dead inside.
soupie
4/19/19 11:15pm
Can't imagine what you're going through but I did help my sister through it and she described
soupie
4/19/19 11:18pm
Dang man, that has to be hard. I’m sorry.
TriggerWarning
4/19/19 11:16pm
I think only those who have been through what you have can give you the advice
777
4/19/19 11:16pm
I would assume this is painfully but absolutely true
gww687
4/20/19 6:03am
I think I'd have to get to the point where I actually want to date
braddahmike
4/19/19 11:19pm
If you’re not ready don’t force it. Don’t settle. It will just make stuff harder
chitchatfan
4/19/19 11:19pm
That sucks. Sounds like you need some hobbies and friends
cougarnerd
4/19/19 11:21pm
If she was that perfect, just take your time.
Blue Ghost
4/19/19 11:25pm
Take plenty of time to heal and then have realistic expectations.
spugeddy24
4/19/19 11:27pm
I had two friends who rushed into marriage after their respective wives passed.
Fallball
4/19/19 11:35pm
If you settle, and it goes south, you're worse off than
BYURider
4/19/19 11:37pm
I don't know that it's a binary choice.
whitey1980
4/19/19 11:46pm
Date and interact so that you don’t leave the death
Archaea
4/20/19 12:01am
We are cheering for you
The Chief
4/20/19 12:02am
It's important to not compare. Remember you're
IceBlue
4/20/19 12:09am
Agreed. It won’t be the same kind of partnership and that’s ok
KSwiss
4/20/19 12:18am
Great post and point
Whip
4/20/19 10:15am
My advice, try dating a widow. She'll feel your pain and loss.
BostonCougar
4/20/19 12:25am
Great suggestion
Coug98
4/20/19 3:55am
I’ve been married for 37 years. My wife and I come from very different families. We didn’t really have that much...
Brisco
4/20/19 1:14am
Feel the same
gurt
4/20/19 4:45am
So sorry to hear.. any kids at home? My widow MIL dated fairly soon after with 2
cougfanz
4/20/19 5:03am
It’s ok to not worry about a companion, but...
Medute
4/20/19 7:45am
You re looking for a friend not ready for a wife
BYU Grounds
4/20/19 8:01am
Won't happen until you're ready, so just date until it happens.
Sooner Cougar
4/20/19 8:20am
I've been there. Literally.
displacedute
4/20/19 8:37am
Wow I can't even imagine. All the best brother.
buckles
4/20/19 12:37pm
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