The anti-religious stuff doesn't bother me. They don't understand. THey have different beliefs. Whatever.
Honestly, as disgusting as it sounds, I can even force myself to manage a tasteless joke. Whatever. That's fine. When my brother died in an accident, I made lots of little jokes about it to myself to help me laugh and get through it too.

What bothers me, however, are comments from people who criticize the parents as if they understand all the details of what actually happened. There are good parents and better parents. There are even bad, neglectful parents. But pretending that having a child killed in an accident is a sign that a parent did a poor job of parenting is incredibly narrow-minded. None of us are as perfect as hind sight and tragedy can strike regardless of what we do.

The last thing the Mahes need is the negative vibe of people pretending this is their fault in any way.