"Pouring his beer", which is essentially being his bartender... is what I'm referring to. Heck doesn't all state laws forbid anyone under the age of 21 to pour a beer Mormon or not? Seems society agrees with me.

You're unbelievably misunderstood if you think I have an issue with people who drink or that I teach my kids to judge those who drink. My grandfather owned a successful bar for many many years, my wife tended bar for 7 years prior to us getting married (and her baptism) and to this day I spend a lot time with brothers, uncles and other family members who drink often.

But just cause I'm ok with my young sons being around alcohol does not mean I'm ok with them playing bartender for drinkers. Huge difference that you didn't seem to catch.