I agree that there is a weird fe/male hybrid that sometimes gets produced out of the Church programs, but itndoesnt have to be that way. Just need a dad to have some balls and make the boy a man. Or a good role model or something like that.
Anyway, many of us don't go out with buds bc we got lots of kids and all the crap kids do keeps everyone busy.
I do NOT ask my wife if I can go out though. But it's a moot point anyway. I wouldn't marry a girl like that. Mines pretty awesome and actually WANTS me to go do stuff.