Had a colleague at work whose wife and 2 kids were in bad vehicle accident on the freeway. She was unconscious and in critical condition at the scene and evacuated to the closest hospital. She was expected to die and did 12 hours later. The 2 boys were evacuated to a Children's hospital an hour away and will be fine after multiple surgeries.
As a father which hospital do you go to? Your wife who is expected to die anytime? Or your kids who will be fine, but definitely scared without mom and dad around?