Manipulating Parents.
Paul Robinso. Dealt with teens on a professional level. Many with issues and situations like your son and worse.
The book is about what to do and not do. Many different strategies. How to recognize what your child is doing. Its an ez read.More like a parenting manual.
Manipulating Parents
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0135521580/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_bkOqCbTVPJNQD