Both multi millionaires and didn’t even go to college. My other brother has a PHD and went to Yale and makes less money than us. You want the best for your kids, and that means putting them in the right place to at least have the chance to succeed. BYU definitely helps in that. But in the long run, it is timing, meeting the right people, and working very hard. Any school can set you up for that. And things always work out and are meant to be. I was worried about a relative of mine that attended a prestigious out of state school after his mission, worried with the selection of potential LDS candidates for him to marry. He found a girl better than I could have ever imagined. Things work out brother- thanks for sharing your story!