She was planning on divorce In retrospect. I was trying to save our marriage and was trying to be the “good guy and try everything” she said she needed the document to feel safe and secure so that she could focus on healing the relationship And get into a place where she could sort stuff out. she sprung it on me and said it needed to be done for us to be in a safe space to heal and save our marriage. I wasn’t comfortable with certain aspects of it. She said she couldn’t figure out how to change it and promised she would not screw me over with it, it was just a formality. She insisted for weeks and would spring it on me from time to time Unexpected. Finally relented. Month and a half later she wanted a divorce 🤦🏼‍♂️