To sit on your high horse and take shots at her character is pretty insulting, I think.
Some of your accusations might be true (and some might be false), but you only have an outsider's guess as to whether or not you are right. Maybe we'll find out more in time, but I'm struggling to understand what is driving these highly emotional reactions to what she did. Why don't we let her make her decisions and stop worrying so much about whether her teammates think she left them high and dry? They can make that accusation if they care to.
I realize that blue-check Twitter is coming out in support of her, and those who dislike the woke mob are therefore railing against her. So people are lining up in their traditional camps with their respective views on whether she's a hero or villain. I wish we could just be more human when dealing with each other.