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Jan 28, 2022
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jvquarterback
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Interesting. Self-shaming brings about real change in oneself more than guilty
feelings.
That's so dependent on the definitions though. What they call self-shame a lot of people would say is something different.
I'm interested in other people shaming an individual though. Any info there?
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What's the data on shaming? Does it work to change behavior? Side effects?
jvquarterback
1/28/22 2:15pm
Shame sucks. It leads to keeping problems secret and that's no way to get help.
Ted Lasso
1/28/22 2:16pm
That's a little different than what I'm asking. I want data to show someone who
jvquarterback
1/28/22 2:23pm
I think it can be very effective, though obviously not the ideal motivation
Gustav
1/28/22 2:20pm
Interesting. Self-shaming brings about real change in oneself more than guilty
jvquarterback
1/28/22 2:35pm
Like using the analogy that someone is a licked cupcake or chewed gum? Elizabet
MacsKid
1/28/22 2:28pm
Yep because shame can make people think that because they made a mistake
ByuImaginesDragons
1/28/22 11:08pm
No data, but I'd surmise it leads mostly to silent entrenchment
Bob Vance
1/28/22 2:31pm
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ByuImaginesDragons
1/28/22 11:09pm
I don’t have data but it seems like shame only results in low self esteem and
ByuImaginesDragons
1/28/22 11:24pm
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