Yep because shame can make people think that because they made a mistake

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Jan 28, 2022
11:08:10pm

ByuImaginesDragons Truly Addicted User

Yep because shame can make people think that because they made a mistake

OR when someone forces them to do something, they might still think they’ve done something wrong or are worth less.

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ByuImaginesDragons

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What's the data on shaming? Does it work to change behavior? Side effects?

jvquarterback

1/28/22 2:15pm

Shame sucks. It leads to keeping problems secret and that's no way to get help.

Ted Lasso

1/28/22 2:16pm

That's a little different than what I'm asking. I want data to show someone who

jvquarterback

1/28/22 2:23pm

I think it can be very effective, though obviously not the ideal motivation

Gustav

1/28/22 2:20pm

Interesting. Self-shaming brings about real change in oneself more than guilty

jvquarterback

1/28/22 2:35pm

Like using the analogy that someone is a licked cupcake or chewed gum? Elizabet

MacsKid

1/28/22 2:28pm

Yep because shame can make people think that because they made a mistake

ByuImaginesDragons

1/28/22 11:08pm

No data, but I'd surmise it leads mostly to silent entrenchment

Bob Vance

1/28/22 2:31pm

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ByuImaginesDragons

1/28/22 11:09pm

I don’t have data but it seems like shame only results in low self esteem and

ByuImaginesDragons

1/28/22 11:24pm

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