Seriously. When everyone says "I don't have a problem with it"

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Sep 25, 2022
11:39:54am

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Seriously. When everyone says "I don't have a problem with it"

its like well but unfortunately you're in public where other people might have a problem with it. You don't have to have an issue with it, but heaven forbid you think about the people around you. As other posters have said here, it has nothing to do with religion but everything to do with respect and not making people (especially ones with young kids) uncomfortable.

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You should have a certain level of conduct at any event. Bad language is not

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 10:44am

Many people don’t consider the mentioned words as bad language.

HingleMcCringleberry

9/25/22 10:45am

Holy S… is pretty universally thought of as crude

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 10:47am

For LDS people. The majority of people don’t think of that as crude

LakeshowCougs

9/25/22 10:47am

So lost we are saying the S Word- not something else?

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 10:50am

Yes. The majority of people I know, don’t consider that word to be crude. The

LakeshowCougs

9/25/22 10:53am

Sorry for you and your belief that it’s just like any other word. I’m not upset

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 10:55am

That’s fine. I’m not arguing if you think it’s crude or not. I don’t think it is

LakeshowCougs

9/25/22 10:58am

Sorry for you and your belief that you don’t want to hear it

bbqelitist

9/25/22 11:55am

If you think I can’t separate the two that’s on you

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 12:26pm

What’s the difference? Please enlighten us to the logic.

bbqelitist

9/25/22 6:51pm

I think most of us don’t need to “be enlightened,” we get it already.

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 7:42pm

Ok then, enlighten me. What’s the difference?

bbqelitist

9/25/22 7:57pm

The coaches would have the good sense to shut up within earshot

MarylandFan

9/25/22 8:07pm

So in other words, no difference.

bbqelitist

9/26/22 1:59pm

How does swearing on sideline affect people in the stands that can't hear it?

MarylandFan

9/26/22 5:05pm

RE: Yes. The majority of people I know, don’t consider that word to be

MogollonMtsCoug

9/25/22 3:38pm

Wrong.

9/25/22 11:19am

I don’t live if Utah either. Every state I have lived in, people use it in every

LakeshowCougs

9/25/22 11:22am

They still know it is considered crude, they likely just know you don’t care as

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 11:24am

Yeah maybe. But none of the people “knew” me or whether I cared about the

LakeshowCougs

9/25/22 11:30am

I guess I am “projecting” (word of the day?) that based upon my experience.

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 11:35am

Hahaha.

9/25/22 11:44am

Depending on my social circle, people I know do too. I still consider it vulgar

9/25/22 11:27am

I don’t use this language, and the people in my social circle are physicians.

LakeshowCougs

9/25/22 11:34am

Wait, are you suggesting physicians don’t swear? Because I know a lot of

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 11:38am

No, I’m saying I don’t use the language being discussed (yelling swear words) at

LakeshowCougs

9/25/22 11:44am

Not every other word. My gosh- you can’t see the difference? I work in heathcare

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 12:28pm

Watch latest season of strangest things, most common expletive. S is just 💩

DCCougFan

9/25/22 11:52am

This take is just not true.

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 11:23am

Not always a good thing to buy into what the majority of society thinks.

Brisco

9/25/22 11:36am

Haha you have not lived around the suburbs of any non-lds place ever

CougfromtheSouth

9/25/22 3:12pm

Really? Where, under a rock?

Mathew

9/25/22 10:47am

You think the S word is acceptable if used over and over?

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 10:50am

At a yewting football game? Of yewting course.

Samsonite

9/25/22 10:50am

Yep. I don’t care what others say. I have my own problems. You seem to worry too

Mathew

9/25/22 10:54am

If you’re going to sit next to me at a game and say S over and over that’s a you

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 11:00am

No, that’s a you problem. Move.

Mathew

9/25/22 11:09am

Nope. It was considered one of the original "dirty" words that were banned on TV. I'm with the crowd that prefers

9/25/22 11:17am

It isnt banned on TV anymore. Neither is the B word. Which I found to be

LakeshowCougs

9/25/22 11:23am

Typical government overreach, trampling on our first amendment rights...

joelvandyne

9/25/22 12:55pm

Well, even the MPA considers it such when rating movies. It’s not considered

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 11:01am

“Crude”? Do we share the same universe?

HingleMcCringleberry

9/25/22 10:48am

Apparently not. This is absolutely considered crude in the USA. It is considered

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 11:04am

The first minute is instructive... and analogous.

9/25/22 11:33am

I’m not arguing that it isn’t crude (and frankly say some of the words in the other thread at points), but I do find

specsauce

9/25/22 10:57am

Well said

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 2:29pm

This crap honestly makes it hard to be a BYU fan sometimes.

Samsonite

9/25/22 10:46am

Yes, yes it does

LakeshowCougs

9/25/22 10:48am

Mother effin right here. All families should hear foul language. Consistently.

notsofast

9/25/22 10:48am

I don’t want to listen to you saying da or s through the game. I won’t complain

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 10:48am

Have you only ever attended BYU sporting events?? This is laughable

LakeshowCougs

9/25/22 10:49am

Well, it is a BYU sporting event that's being discussed

MarylandFan

9/25/22 11:06am

^^^this.

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 11:12am

How many people did you report to the Honor Code Office when you were a student?

Magathis

9/25/22 10:51am

Zero- can you not control yourself at games? Maybe you have Tourette’s? I

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 10:52am

ABSOLUTELY!

9/25/22 11:19am

We should not expect appropriate language at games. If Pres. Nelson

notsofast

9/25/22 10:50am

This isnt just a BYU thing. I sat in Yankee stadium 10 years ago with three

WDaddy

9/25/22 11:07am

Well said. Thanks for posting.

9/25/22 11:51am

This is true of most people. Ask kindly and they will adjust. Most will.

NYC and Japan

9/25/22 12:53pm

Meh. Embrace it.

Brisco

9/25/22 11:38am

Yelling any words at a game is dumb because no one that you’re yelling at

maxpowers

9/25/22 10:46am

If it's in the scriptures it's ok. so H*** D*** and A** are all ok

crimedog

9/25/22 10:47am

If you pay good money, and the venue you'r viewing at doesn't have a posted list

UberDeek

9/25/22 10:47am

Do you have kids? Do you ever take them to a game? I once reprimanded

Plato

9/25/22 10:50am

RE: You should have a certain level of conduct at any event. Bad language is not

Mathew

9/25/22 10:51am

I guess I won’t invite you to my house to watch BYU games then

9/25/22 10:52am

Probably not- if you can’t stop saying FU and SH I don’t think I’d enjoy it.

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 10:53am

The level of selfishness on display by people defending coarse language here...

MarylandFan

9/25/22 11:08am

Seriously. When everyone says "I don't have a problem with it"

B-Y-eautifulDay

9/25/22 11:39am

Careful... Your self-righteous is showing...

canndyman

9/25/22 11:29am

Maybe- possible many’s lack of class is showing more

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 12:26pm

Because he is standing for something? This is such a cop out argument when

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 12:42pm

Whatever helps you feel better about relentlessly judging people...

canndyman

9/25/22 1:29pm

"Let me behave in a crass, vulgar way... but don't judge me!"

9/25/22 1:33pm

If it bothers you that much, you should gone and talked to them. Not yelled from the stand up at them. Not called

Spiff

9/25/22 11:44am

I never have reported anyone- i suggested I would or wouldn’t feel bad doing it

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 11:58am

Hahahahahaha

AFcoug7

9/25/22 12:05pm

Or, we could not take offense but still stand for something as Gordon B Hinkley

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 12:18pm

RE: Or, we could not take offense but still stand for something as Gordon B

StationX

9/25/22 12:39pm

“Sloppy language and sloppy ways go together. Those who are truly educated have

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 12:56pm

Thanks for the sermon, but in which post did I say civility isn't best or

StationX

9/25/22 2:50pm

And here it comes…..and there it went.

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 4:21pm

So maybe you should stand for something in front those who were participating in the behavior you feel needs to be stood

Spiff

9/25/22 12:45pm

I was on the fence, like I said. Have you ever had a moral dilemma and asked

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 12:49pm

RE: I was on the fence, like I said. Have you ever had a moral dilemma and asked

Spiff

9/26/22 6:41pm

Never lived in your bubble except at BYU. Most of my friends that aren’t members

SouthernBlueBlood

9/25/22 12:25pm

Yes, hold yourself to that standard if you so choose (I do personally)

StationX

9/25/22 12:34pm

The dissonance on not parsing personal versus public behavior here...

MarylandFan

9/25/22 12:42pm

Yes, that is a valid choice. Confront them if you like. I'm not telling anyone

StationX

9/25/22 12:50pm

So many unable to separate their personal threshold from the concept

MarylandFan

9/25/22 1:07pm

Newsflash: it's not about you. It's about showing respect to everyone around you.

9/25/22 1:37pm

Not actually a newsflash. I don't swear at public events.

StationX

9/25/22 1:45pm

Yet, you seem not to understand the concept.

BYU-Ite

9/25/22 4:22pm

I understand the concept perfectly well, hence my choice not to swear at games,

StationX

9/26/22 6:38pm

You seem to be getting all worked up about it. It isn't an "extreme concern." I

BYU-Ite

9/26/22 6:49pm

The misinterpretation of your OP is just a masterclass in internet dumb

MarylandFan

9/26/22 6:53pm

Talk about lack of self awareness.

StationX

9/26/22 8:47pm

No doubt. Nice pants.

BYU-Ite

9/26/22 10:46pm

Why do you lie about what he posted?

MarylandFan

9/27/22 5:58am

Unreal. But

9/25/22 1:36pm

Nothing wrong with having this standard.

APowerfulY

9/25/22 2:08pm

Are we allowed to chant refs su@& ?

Coug Dude

9/25/22 2:55pm

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