Seems the most logical take (and there’s little logic to be found) is that she wants exactly what we all presume she wants but doesn’t like people stating it b/c that sounds bad. She also wants it out of sympathy for her Dads death but isn’t claiming to want special privileges.
Sorry Karen, err I mean Kelli, that’s precisely what you’re asking from BYU. If not, then please tell what it is you want because being treated like everyone else is exactly what happened.
Oh and sorry for your loss. My Mom died two months ago so I understand.