She hates the rec part because some don't know what to do on defense or don't have the skill. We try to make it a learning experience for her about helping teammates and being patient. Because of the distance of our travel we only do one tournament a month so rec ball is necessary for more game time. The benefit is rec games she doesn't feel the same pressure as travel and she can relax a bit and burn out with stress in every game. But she has to face stress in travel games and learn to overcome it.