I think it was probably a joke. In my many years at BYU (I wasn't on the graduation fast track) I never knew anyone that would write such a letter. I certainly wouldn't have. However, haven't any of you ever wondered why women want to display their bodies like that? I hope my daughters won't choose to wear low necklines or one-strap backpacks for several reasons, not the least of which is that dirty old men like you guys will be ogling them.