...particularly if what EVERYONE is telling you is true and the lack of an offer has nothing to do with football.
At a certain point you have to trust that the coaches know what a good football player looks like.
And then you have to trust the coaches that if they don't offer a good football player they have a reason for doing so.
And if you're a fan of BYU, you have to understand that sometimes that reason will be lifestyle related and none of your business...so you may NEVER learn why a certain player wasn't offered.
But ultimately it comes down to trust.