A good friend of mine is in the middle of his 90 day

Mar 3, 2015
12:56:14pm

adog

waiting period before his divorce is finalized. He continues to have relations with his to be ex-wife because they are not yet "divorced".

I told him I thought that was weird. What do you all think?

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A good friend of mine is in the middle of his 90 day

adog

3/3/15 12:56pm

what is the reason for the divorce?

TheDeek

3/3/15 12:57pm

Just stay together.

PharmD

3/3/15 12:57pm

What do you mean by relations?

Ssebo

3/3/15 12:57pm

intimate in nature

adog

3/3/15 12:58pm

Do they kiss?

Ragnar Danneskjold

3/3/15 12:59pm

^^This. As long as they don't kiss on the mouth, they're in the clear.

CougarTwins

3/3/15 1:04pm

Then you are supposed to say "relations"

SanDiegoCoug

3/3/15 1:03pm

Tea and biscuits while they discuss foreign policy

Fetchin Fetcher

3/3/15 12:58pm

I think this is probably OK then.

Ssebo

3/3/15 2:08pm

Minus the Tea thing of course.

Ssebo

3/3/15 2:08pm

Yeah, that's weird. If they are willing to be intimate still they should be

kansascougar

3/3/15 12:59pm

Just because you're getting divorced doesn't mean you don't want to get it on

pink22

3/3/15 12:59pm

That's one possible path to reconciliation.

ClackamasCoug

3/3/15 2:21pm

no different than going to Vegas, doing the deed, then getting it annulled

CougarTwins

3/3/15 12:59pm

A lot different.......

rockhound

3/3/15 1:34pm

Divorce doesnt stop the desire for Pon Farr, just ask TNT

monkeycowboy

3/3/15 1:00pm

TNT is French?

Conan O'Fresno

3/3/15 1:30pm

Am I the only one who had to look up Pon Farr? Not much of a trekki, I guess.

The Stig

3/4/15 1:16pm

I figured the term would be known considering how often TNT uses it

monkeycowboy

3/4/15 1:19pm

Not so weird

Twin Roots

3/3/15 1:01pm

Yeah, it's weird

Freddie Cougar

3/3/15 1:06pm

I can never understand this attitude. If things are so bad

thecelloguy

3/3/15 1:32pm

Are they LDS?

Chester Copperpot

3/3/15 1:10pm

yes, but not a temple marriage

adog

3/3/15 1:11pm

good question, if so they could keep going until the temple divorce is final.

CougarTwins

3/3/15 1:12pm

You must have a different understanding of "legallly and lawfully" than I do.

Chester Copperpot

3/3/15 1:24pm

What's the over and under on whether they can stop once its final?

kansascougar

3/3/15 1:15pm

over/under doesn't mean what you think it means

SPORTS

3/3/15 1:18pm

Not weird at all, IMO. People need certain needs fulfilled and even if you

Banjo Blues

3/3/15 1:17pm

I have a friend in nearly the exact same situation

bluebloodedcoug

3/3/15 1:18pm

That's an interesting scenario, and makes a tiny bit more sense to me.

jayriggity

3/3/15 1:55pm

I had a friend whose dad and step mom did something similar. it was a second

Oompabluepaw

3/3/15 1:24pm

Separation isn't as cut and dry as people imagine sometimes.

getemcougs24

3/3/15 1:25pm

this is relations just for relations sake

adog

3/3/15 1:27pm

I don't know if "weird" is the right word, but maybe "immoral" if you are

AndyDwyer

3/3/15 1:29pm

I doubt it is for both, even if it's being presented that way.

getemcougs24

3/3/15 1:30pm

Yes, but separation can (and maybe should) be a step taken prior to filing

bluebloodedcoug

3/3/15 1:47pm

My wife's ex told her they could still have relations after their divorce

oohYeah

3/3/15 1:28pm

I had a case that allowed my client to have visitation to his ex-wife's chest

BYULAWGUY

3/3/15 1:35pm

Hello lefty, hello righty?

PharmD

3/3/15 1:39pm

Harold and Kumar.

AndyDwyer

3/3/15 1:40pm

What was in the chest that he wanted to look at? Was it a treasure chest?

dchandle15

3/3/15 1:45pm

he probably paid good money for them, so he was entitled to half.

CougarTwins

3/3/15 1:51pm

Why do you care?

Real Men Wear Blue

3/3/15 2:08pm

That's why the waiting period exists.

Cougar Insider

3/3/15 2:09pm

True they are still married, if he ex doesn't care then more power to him!!

Blue for Life

3/3/15 2:38pm

I say it is up to them, if letter of law works

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