I say it is up to them, if letter of law works

Mar 4, 2015
4:35:47am

dohickies

Before marriage strictly, it should also be letter of law before end of marriage. By logic of many of these posts, it would be okay once the wedding was 99% set.

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A good friend of mine is in the middle of his 90 day

adog

3/3/15 12:56pm

what is the reason for the divorce?

TheDeek

3/3/15 12:57pm

Just stay together.

PharmD

3/3/15 12:57pm

What do you mean by relations?

Ssebo

3/3/15 12:57pm

intimate in nature

adog

3/3/15 12:58pm

Do they kiss?

Ragnar Danneskjold

3/3/15 12:59pm

^^This. As long as they don't kiss on the mouth, they're in the clear.

CougarTwins

3/3/15 1:04pm

Then you are supposed to say "relations"

SanDiegoCoug

3/3/15 1:03pm

Tea and biscuits while they discuss foreign policy

Fetchin Fetcher

3/3/15 12:58pm

I think this is probably OK then.

Ssebo

3/3/15 2:08pm

Minus the Tea thing of course.

Ssebo

3/3/15 2:08pm

Yeah, that's weird. If they are willing to be intimate still they should be

kansascougar

3/3/15 12:59pm

Just because you're getting divorced doesn't mean you don't want to get it on

pink22

3/3/15 12:59pm

That's one possible path to reconciliation.

ClackamasCoug

3/3/15 2:21pm

no different than going to Vegas, doing the deed, then getting it annulled

CougarTwins

3/3/15 12:59pm

A lot different.......

rockhound

3/3/15 1:34pm

Divorce doesnt stop the desire for Pon Farr, just ask TNT

monkeycowboy

3/3/15 1:00pm

TNT is French?

Conan O'Fresno

3/3/15 1:30pm

Am I the only one who had to look up Pon Farr? Not much of a trekki, I guess.

The Stig

3/4/15 1:16pm

I figured the term would be known considering how often TNT uses it

monkeycowboy

3/4/15 1:19pm

Not so weird

Twin Roots

3/3/15 1:01pm

Yeah, it's weird

Freddie Cougar

3/3/15 1:06pm

I can never understand this attitude. If things are so bad

thecelloguy

3/3/15 1:32pm

Are they LDS?

Chester Copperpot

3/3/15 1:10pm

yes, but not a temple marriage

adog

3/3/15 1:11pm

good question, if so they could keep going until the temple divorce is final.

CougarTwins

3/3/15 1:12pm

You must have a different understanding of "legallly and lawfully" than I do.

Chester Copperpot

3/3/15 1:24pm

What's the over and under on whether they can stop once its final?

kansascougar

3/3/15 1:15pm

over/under doesn't mean what you think it means

SPORTS

3/3/15 1:18pm

Not weird at all, IMO. People need certain needs fulfilled and even if you

Banjo Blues

3/3/15 1:17pm

I have a friend in nearly the exact same situation

bluebloodedcoug

3/3/15 1:18pm

That's an interesting scenario, and makes a tiny bit more sense to me.

jayriggity

3/3/15 1:55pm

I had a friend whose dad and step mom did something similar. it was a second

Oompabluepaw

3/3/15 1:24pm

Separation isn't as cut and dry as people imagine sometimes.

getemcougs24

3/3/15 1:25pm

this is relations just for relations sake

adog

3/3/15 1:27pm

I don't know if "weird" is the right word, but maybe "immoral" if you are

AndyDwyer

3/3/15 1:29pm

I doubt it is for both, even if it's being presented that way.

getemcougs24

3/3/15 1:30pm

Yes, but separation can (and maybe should) be a step taken prior to filing

bluebloodedcoug

3/3/15 1:47pm

My wife's ex told her they could still have relations after their divorce

oohYeah

3/3/15 1:28pm

I had a case that allowed my client to have visitation to his ex-wife's chest

BYULAWGUY

3/3/15 1:35pm

Hello lefty, hello righty?

PharmD

3/3/15 1:39pm

Harold and Kumar.

AndyDwyer

3/3/15 1:40pm

What was in the chest that he wanted to look at? Was it a treasure chest?

dchandle15

3/3/15 1:45pm

he probably paid good money for them, so he was entitled to half.

CougarTwins

3/3/15 1:51pm

Why do you care?

Real Men Wear Blue

3/3/15 2:08pm

That's why the waiting period exists.

Cougar Insider

3/3/15 2:09pm

True they are still married, if he ex doesn't care then more power to him!!

Blue for Life

3/3/15 2:38pm

I say it is up to them, if letter of law works

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