We had a daughter that we thought was doing great but one day everything blow up in our faces. The more we looked the uglier it got. We found out that our sweet little girl wasn't as sweet as we thought she was, in fact, she was pretty awful. We had to make some very hard decisions, she HATED us for it and let us know. There's nothing like having your child tell you they hate you and mean it. We went through a lot of praying and crying. She ended up finding a great guy and married in the temple and is doing a lot better now. They don't always turn out so well but I know how painful it can be to go through this with your kids. Hang in there.