Even if it's a bad or wrong choice?

She understands that you understand and you won't or cannot control her even it's it causes you suffering ...requires long-suffering? And she will have natural and hard consequences from her bad life choices and will also suffer from possibly not having the Spirit as much in her life. And yet you still show great love towards her still?

I understand that there may be consequences from you for her if her choices harm others but at some point she needs to make her own choices no matter how wrong they are and what consequences that may bring etc..

Again the ideal is easier said then done and God's plan allows for heartache and heartbreak,.but there is no other way that works

I forget how old you mentioned she was but I half remember she's almost 18 or close enough, at some point she's going to be old enough where legally she might move out and live on her own, you are preparing her for that and much more. And you hopefully have relationship with her where if she does "fall" and stray, she can change and "come back" and perceive that she would be welcomed back with open arms and hearts

Best wishes and I hope I don't have to go through what you are going thru with your children.