My concern is that she is putting herself in a situation where she is being groomed without knowing it (talking to a 20 year old man about calling CPS on us). She might not have a chance to make another decision again if she makes a bad one now...not to sound overly dramatic.

Keep in mind, we have allowed her to have access to apps and websites that, while they made us uncomfortable, we recognized that she needs to retain the ability to choose between right and wrong. She is abusing that privilege and putting herself at risk.

If she was only talking to her friends about how much she doesn't like us, her parents, this wouldn't be a big deal. This situation has gone beyond that and now shes talking about claiming that we are abusing her or maybe running away to go and live with one of her friends so that she doesn't have to abide by our rules.