Coupled with a way back from it when and if we want it, offered at Jesus’ cost, and not at ours. Freedom is a more important principle than any other here in this life.
The problem in this case is the reciprocal attempt to exercise unrighteous dominion—those who want to force acceptance on the issue and those who want to force this guy and the people who have decided to put him on the squad to admit that they shouldn’t do so and/or that it is shameful.
The correct answer is to teach the truth in love and let all people, on both sides, govern themselves.