If you're talking about groceries not fitting in backpacks like it's no big deal then I don't know what to tell you. You clearly have zero grasp on reality unless you are fine with a student walking three trips to the store to get all of her groceries home.
If you're talking about it not being a big deal for you to plan for your kid to be mooching off everyone else's kid - at least accept and embrace the fact that you're a low budget annoying social cost of a dweeb.
Which of the two is correct?