But I feel like I am in good company:

David A Bednar: "...it ultimately is impossible for another person to offend you or to offend me. Indeed, believing that another person offended us is fundamentally false. To be offended is a choice we make; it is not a condition inflicted or imposed upon us by someone or something else."

Epictetus: “If someone succeeds in provoking you, realize that your mind is complicit in the provocation.”

Proverbs: ""A man's wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense."

and so many others... 🙂