a bunch.
I’m only in the very early stages, but here’s what I’ve come up with.
Imagine what I want myself to look like - what kind of person do I want to be, and what do I want my life to look like.
Take inventory. Recognize that lots of things can’t change as a practical reality. Eg, I can’t quit my job and move. But plenty of things can change.
Then I’m working on the main part still - implementation. Taking the changeable stuff and making it look the way I want it to look.
In my mind, this is basically a ctrl-alt-delete. This is recognizing that there are things I don’t like about the way I voluntarily live my life and that I don’t really have to do it that way.