facts staring you right in the face, and in this case those facts are that women can "not" do anything a man can do to the same degree that a man can do. And that goes the other way, too. Guys can't get pregnant. That doesn't offend me. Typically girls develop emotional empathy earlier than men do, too. That doesn't offend me. Men and women are equal in value but not always equal in talent and ability.
"That" is called reality.