1. My nephew has fathered a child and the kid is like 3 now. Adopted but apparently an open adoption and my nephew sees him one in awhile. My nephew is 19 now.
2. My niece, from the same family, got pregnant probably around 16 and my other brother and my SIL were going to adopt this baby but my niece ended up miscarrying.

Now what makes these earth shattering to me is that my brother and SIL don’t know that I know this. Both of these things were told to me from two different sister-in-laws. My brother and SIL have actually told no one, but the kids have big mouths and so do my sister-in-laws. So they don’t know that we all know their big secrets about their kids. Haha!