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Jun 6, 2021
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goose
#cantstandya
It’s time for compromise and conversation IMO. You know best with your own kid,
but I would shy away from “keep you away from your friends” type of punishments. It’s not as effective and often pushes teenagers away. 🤷🏼♂️
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15 yr old daughter comes home late
Jimmy Rocket
6/6/21 12:19am
How late?
byubyu
6/6/21 12:27am
45 minutes after midnight.
Jimmy Rocket
6/6/21 12:29am
I would just tell her why you want her home earlier and why you want her to
byubyu
6/6/21 12:34am
It’s time for compromise and conversation IMO. You know best with your own kid,
goose
6/6/21 12:28am
I don’t know quite where I should compromise.
Jimmy Rocket
6/6/21 12:30am
compromise on deciding on the punishment together. Route I’d consider at least
goose
6/6/21 12:34am
Had you told her the specific consequence for missing curfew without calling?
StantonMac
6/6/21 12:34am
I don’t have teenagers yet, but to me it would depend on if this was a 1 time
ballen
6/6/21 12:29am
She’s a good kid. But a little aloof.
Jimmy Rocket
6/6/21 12:30am
I grew up in the middle of nowhere and when I did social things it was often in
ballen
6/6/21 12:35am
15 year olds right now. Killing me.
QBarrister
6/6/21 12:41am
That's why when I was dating I waited until they had a driver's license at least
ryebrye
6/6/21 4:16am
My teens have a 1am curfew
conflictedcoug
6/6/21 8:17am
Simple tactic we used on our kids....
AzCugrFan
6/6/21 1:39am
I like this idea
Lalau
6/6/21 5:03am
Like this better than phone idea. Even if doing phone, week seems too long. Keep consequence related to infraction.
Soupie
6/6/21 5:54am
Or next time she wants to leave the house
WorfoSAUR
6/6/21 6:22am
Love the idea of it being at beginning of evening. Really tough to catch up on even a little beginning time.
Soupie
6/6/21 5:38pm
Maybe I think about this too economics but doesn’t this just incentivize
squirrelyearl
6/6/21 6:46am
If my parents tried that on me, I'd have taken advantage of the situation
Covid-19
6/6/21 6:50am
That is pretty easy to fix
AzCugrFan
6/6/21 4:37pm
Phone idea might lead to a terrible backlash if you hadn’t discussed it before
Medute
6/6/21 6:20am
In my experience as a teenager. Harsh punishments often lead to more rebellious
Powerbait DPM
6/6/21 6:26am
Let her know you love her and just want her to be safe. Even if late just let..
ordinary tri guy
6/6/21 6:41am
Ground her for a week
BIG XII Coug
6/6/21 6:44am
This reminds me, I need to go downstairs and see if my 15yo came home last night
Plato
6/6/21 7:57am
Ha. That’s the household I grew up in.. not sure how I’ll handle it when my kids
cougfanz
6/6/21 8:23am
He should have checked in, but oh well.
Plato
6/6/21 8:28am
It’s not uncommon for kids that age to constantly forget
Desert Rat
6/6/21 9:19am
Some thoughts:
Parkercoug82
6/6/21 9:32am
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