I get it. And you are obviously right. I wouldn't tell his family that. I would naturally mourn with them and try to comfort them.
I presume that none of us on this board knew Aaron Lowe personally, so we can discuss what happened as more a matter of fact.
But yes, I get it. I hope you can also see what my intentions were. I am not victim blaming. I am blaming society and the world we live in.