assume that when bad things happen to them its because they are being discriminated against for being mormon. One of the biggest shocks when i moved here. I hear it all the time...my house was egged because i'm not mormon, i was spit at because i'm not mormon, people give me evil looks at the grocery store because i'm not mormon...
i know our members aren't perfect and that some people are mean...but at least half of the things i hear blamed on religion aren't true.