Do marital commitments mean that you have to bend to every whim of your spouse?

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Aug 28, 2015
11:10:25am

Virginia Ute

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Virginia Ute

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I need a good excuse to get out of a dinner with a co-worker tonight:

Revolution

8/28/15 8:24am

You're going to sound like a jerk no matter what you tell them.

HarlemCoug

8/28/15 8:27am

Agreed. Pretty lame to bail at this point.

cracka

8/28/15 8:29am

RE: I need a good excuse to get out of a dinner with a co-worker tonight:

cracka

8/28/15 8:28am

diarreha.

Blueto

8/28/15 8:28am

The truth. My wife is really stressed and just wants a night in with me and the

monkeycowboy

8/28/15 8:29am

Although it might be easier to and more acceptable to talk your wife into going

monkeycowboy

8/28/15 8:30am

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Buffalo

8/28/15 8:30am

You have to wash your hair

kunarcougar

8/28/15 8:30am

You got hit in the nuts with a softball last night and have to go to the doctor

BIG XII Coug

8/28/15 8:31am

Okay but which doctor? Who handles that?

johnnycarson

8/28/15 8:41am

You should go.

kccougar

8/28/15 8:34am

Absolutely. Could reap dividends but the reasons for missing are fleeting.

monteburns

8/28/15 8:36am

Go. If your wife doesn't want to go, hire somebody to go with you.

Ragnar Danneskjold

8/28/15 8:35am

I heard there is this great website called Ashley Madison with lots of women

CSoul

8/28/15 8:40am

Uh, khakis

Sea Chicken

8/28/15 8:43am

She sounds hideous!

FatherOFive

8/28/15 8:58am

Get your wife to go with you

4mack

8/28/15 8:38am

I think you'd regret not going, no matter what excuse you come up with.

garyfan

8/28/15 8:47am

Go. You don't make commitments to people and back out of them for those kinds

Virginia Ute

8/28/15 8:49am

You need to go - It will be really poor form not too. Have to play the Long game

Cougs1

8/28/15 8:55am

You need to go. That's all there is to it.

Alister Mackenzie

8/28/15 9:05am

You don't need to go

2FarGone

8/28/15 9:07am

She's not dying. She doesn't want to go because it's inconvenient.

Alister Mackenzie

8/28/15 9:13am

Have an issue with the word "need"

2FarGone

8/28/15 9:17am

It's not about "choosing the wife over the job."

garyfan

8/28/15 9:47am

What about commitment to the wife?

2FarGone

8/28/15 11:04am

Do marital commitments mean that you have to bend to every whim of your spouse?

Virginia Ute

8/28/15 11:10am

Yes. Wait, this is only the wife catering to the husband, right?

Ragnar Danneskjold

8/29/15 1:11pm

What about the wife's commitment to her husband?

Ashtrash

8/28/15 11:26am

Happened last night to me. I helped my wife get the house cleaned, and she went

runnincoug

8/28/15 11:32am

^^Something like this. If she's stressed,

panguitch

8/29/15 8:14am

I agree with this. Why is it that in so many Mormon marriages, it seems like

CougarBacker

8/28/15 11:38am

That is exactly the attitude that the wife needs to have

2FarGone

8/28/15 11:57am

I vehemently disagree. Very lucky to have married a wife that doesn't need to

CougarBacker

8/29/15 9:43am

Weird. You and I are saying the same thing.

2FarGone

8/29/15 1:05pm

Apologies. I mis-read your original post.

CougarBacker

8/29/15 10:47pm

I don't understand what the commitment to the wife would be in this case.

CougarBacker

8/28/15 11:35am

Too late. Not wanting to go isn't good enough anymore.

Shimmy

8/28/15 9:11am

take your kids with you. Family Night!

Cougarclaw

8/28/15 9:15am

Man, I would love to take my wife out for a nice dinner like that tonight.

CougarBacker

8/28/15 9:24am

So, did you end up going?

Alister Mackenzie

8/29/15 8:24am

Mrs. Rev stayed home. I went and had a great time.

Revolution

8/29/15 12:55pm

glad it worked out.

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