as overwhelmingly offensive or embarrassing. Like it or not, it's a pretty common (and often good-natured) insult. In a recent fantasy draft, I jumped on Amon-Ra St Brown in the 15th round or something. The guy after me wanted to draft him - his response was to say "You [male anatomy], I was about to take him".
I didn't look at him and tell him he should be embarrassed by his actions and that his word choice reflects poorly on his entire family, that I can't believe he would use such language.
I only mention the vestigial tail thing since I think it's similarly immature and because they both deal with anatomy, but in a lot of ways, I honestly think continually spreading a rumour about a body anomaly is worse than calling someone a curse word. If Kyle doesn't have one (which according to him he doesn't), it's absolutely dumb and immature. If he does, then continually bringing it up seems to actually be worse.