"All of this to say, yes, we all make choices we believe to be right for our families. But you cannot say that the only path to success is by doing things in a particular order or by having kids at a particular time."

Which is why I have a problem with people trying to get other people to see it the way they see it and say things like: "It is fairly common in today's world, in another paradigm shift, to trumpet alternative choices in a positive way that are in direct conflict with this plan and are unfavorable to marriage and family.

To mention a few:

The choice for both women and men to put education and careers ahead of marriage and family.
The choice to purposefully have no or few children." - e. cook

Magneto has his way of doing things, cook has his way of doing things and wants others to do it his way. To both, I would just refer them to your words above.