We're thinking about holding my daughter back in kindergarten.

Apr 21, 2017
8:59:35pm

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She's fine socially. She is the youngest in her class and really struggling with reading and sight words. Total opposite of our oldest who reads like a champ.

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We're having a hard time deciding when to put our son in 1st grade.

maxpowers

4/21/17 8:55pm

We're thinking about holding my daughter back in kindergarten.

PharmD

4/21/17 8:59pm

We will probably have my middle son repeat

JOPE

4/21/17 9:14pm

Our son is 6 and in 1st grade. He won't turn 7 until July 31. He's done fine so

Flippy

4/21/17 9:00pm

I wouldn't worry about physical is he is just small.

Y'zFan

4/21/17 9:00pm

We are in the same boat. June birthday. I'm leaning towards starting him later

Cougarfan777

4/21/17 9:00pm

My kid was born in July and we didn't wait. He's smaller than most in his class (3rd grade now), but he

LiveCoug

4/21/17 9:02pm

Pros and cons to both. None of my kids will be pro athletes anyway so early is

BYUtka

4/21/17 9:01pm

True. Plus if we stay here, he'll go to lone peak. And the 2027 varsity

maxpowers

4/21/17 9:04pm

For what it's worth, I worked as an AD for awhile at the HS level, you would be

Cougarfan777

4/21/17 9:13pm

No need to rush life. Lots of good reasons for both but I

Baron

4/21/17 9:13pm

School is not life. Life starts after school. No reason to delay.

BYUtka

4/21/17 9:14pm

Sorry your childhood sucked. I loved it. You have plenty of time to work and

Baron

4/21/17 9:15pm

I agree. I feel bad for parents that must use daycare. These toddler years at

Cougarfan777

4/21/17 9:17pm

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jaredm

4/21/17 9:21pm

This^^ kids go to school for 12 plus years, why rush them into school? Our

jaredm

4/21/17 9:21pm

The Rush isn't to get into school. It is to get out. The sooner they start, the

BYUtka

4/21/17 9:24pm

I am sorry your life peaked in JR High. We all have our things.

BYUtka

4/21/17 9:22pm

My life is always peaking. I am not foolish enough to rush passed the few

Baron

4/21/17 9:27pm

Then you should be grateful for your privileged life. Not everyone is afforded

BYUtka

4/21/17 9:30pm

If he's emotionally and mentally ready, start him.

byujacob

4/21/17 10:20pm

I also graduated high school at 17

DK-

4/24/17 11:54am

Thing is, you have no idea how differently your life would have turned out had

byujacob

4/24/17 11:58am

True, I can't complain, could have been better, but I also don't know how it

DK-

4/24/17 12:57pm

I would start him later

yahtzee

4/21/17 10:30pm

Interesting thread, considering all the research on the subject says to start him later if you can.

Supercoug

4/21/17 10:32pm

link? I've never heard this. Two of my kids are the youngest in their grade. Both are the top student in their class. I

HarlemCoug

4/21/17 11:09pm

Read outliers discusses this

SouthernBlueBlood

4/22/17 5:06am

outliers speaks of advantages for athletes. I agree with those conclusions. But this post says "all" the research

HarlemCoug

4/22/17 7:58am

Actually, all of the research says the exact opposite.

Conan

4/22/17 6:47pm

I vote for later. I did 7th grade twice....it was not too bad

Thrill

4/21/17 11:23pm

We waited with our twins and the biggest reason was

whirl

4/22/17 5:34am

That's an interesting take. I'm curious how it'll turn out.

NorthernLight

4/22/17 8:13am

I'll get back to you in about 14 years.🤔

whirl

4/22/17 8:40am

No offense, but this is one of the strangest reasons I've heard of for holding kids back.

Conan

4/22/17 7:28pm

I was 16 when I started my senior year in HS. Don't regret it at all.

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