Another minor concern is any pets.

Nov 25, 2022
7:33:11pm

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My MIL was hesitant to fully address the concept of moving to assisted living because of her pets. She understood that she would really miss them but also concerned about their future.

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Need advice: 80 yo mom with worsening dementia. Are there services to help ?

ABN RGR

11/25/22 6:58pm

I'd take her keys.

Dark Forest Green

11/25/22 7:01pm

Car is totaled. We’re good there.

ABN RGR

11/25/22 9:14pm

Doctor can revoke license. That way you don’t have to be bad guys.

bluecheese

11/25/22 7:03pm

Totally agree with letting the doc be the bad guy. Some heads up from the family before the appointment is very helpful

doctorcoug

11/25/22 7:07pm

also did what's best for the public.

squidmark

11/25/22 7:19pm

Take her to her PCP next week for a dementia eval. That usually gets a longer appointment slot so that we can do the

doctorcoug

11/25/22 7:04pm

Thx. She totaled the car, so now we have to break it that she ain’t getting one.

ABN RGR

11/25/22 9:11pm

If you put her in hospice, they have nurses, caregivers

rockhound

11/25/22 7:05pm

Hospice is part of Medicare.

rockhound

11/25/22 7:06pm

Dementia rarely qualifies for hospice benefits. You gotta have some pretty defined other issues going on to qualify and

doctorcoug

11/25/22 7:09pm

Happened for both my in-laws.

Six Foot Seven

11/25/22 8:07pm

I'm sure you're correct, but both my parents had them come several times per wk.

rockhound

11/25/22 8:47pm

I've had many patients on hospice with dementia. It is just much harder to justify in an audit.

doctorcoug

11/25/22 8:55pm

Check and review and medications she is taking. One problems that arises is they can't remember

SV Coug

11/25/22 7:06pm

Don't forget any herbs or supplements as well.

SV Coug

11/25/22 7:12pm

BM sent

creameryon9th

11/25/22 7:09pm

Are there legal repercussions from the accident?

ColoSpgs

11/25/22 7:10pm

She was cited for traffic violation and has a court summons.

ABN RGR

11/25/22 9:07pm

Where is she located? Utah?

SV Coug

11/25/22 7:15pm

South Jordan, UT

ABN RGR

11/25/22 9:10pm

There is no easy way to do it. You just have to do what needs to be done.

Busting Coveys

11/25/22 7:16pm

If there are any cars left, sell them or give them to family members.

Florwood

11/25/22 7:19pm

Get her into see the doctor - deal with the vehicles immediately

cougarBee

11/25/22 7:21pm

Take cars away and move them with you or assisted living.

GA_Coug

11/25/22 7:27pm

I feel for ya, man. Just went through this with my father.

MoodyBlueCoug

11/25/22 7:27pm

Family needs to step up. Like others said, go disconnect the battery. Take the

BNcoug

11/25/22 7:29pm

Agree. This is on the family, not doctor, or anyone else. Take away the access

cougfanz

11/25/22 7:42pm

Amen! I absolutely hate family bringing in 90 year old mom/dad who seems fine and wants me to take the license.

5150man

11/25/22 9:48pm

Well, at least they changed the follow up on the forms, so that many of the patients don't need to do them anymore.

doctorcoug

11/26/22 9:39am

Here I thought it was all me.😀 I’ve been marking “no further review” on all of mine for years.

5150man

11/26/22 10:58am

There are only a handful of patients that I think need regular review. They are severe mental health, terrible DM,

doctorcoug

11/26/22 11:48am

Get a lawyer, get in front of a judge to appoint someone as a conservator or her assets. Sell her car. Put her

Probable Sacko

11/25/22 7:32pm

Another minor concern is any pets.

SV Coug

11/25/22 7:33pm

You can’t reason your way to her accepting your view of things.

Six Foot Seven

11/25/22 8:04pm

Seroquel or Risperdal can be game changers. They don’t cure dementia, but they

valleus

11/25/22 8:30pm

And also increases mortality. I get that they're is a give and take with quality vs quantity of life.

doctorcoug

11/25/22 8:57pm

They’re on the Beers list. You need some major justification to put

TexanY

11/26/22 3:44am

Also: make decisions like this for yourself & spouse ahead of time so that you don’t put your kids in this position.

Spiff

11/25/22 9:14pm

Yeah, I’ve told my wife to send me off a cliff WHEN I get this way! Lol.

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