and take everthing from man with a grain of salt.  I don't see the church as the brick building with people  in it.  I see it as His priesthood and authority, His words, and his active involvement in all our lives.  I see things in the brick buildings that make me sad or disappointed.  But I know we are all flawed and are trying to become like Him.  A thing I like to do is when I look at people I try to imagine how beautiful they will be when they have a perfect body and will be free of any mortal limitations such as mental disorders etc.  It is an enjoyable way that I like to see the world.  But I agree, do not tie your faith with men.  It will lead to heartbreak or disillusionment.  That is very wise council.