is American. If a guy learns to date, and gets out socially he just gets more and more attractive.

So many things a guy can do to be more attractive and they are all enjoyable and cheaper than entertaining themselves (most can also be learned on youtube)

, cooking, play guitar, yoga, acro yoga, aerial yoga, any and all partner dances, piano, volunteering and the community that comes with it (especially with animals. the elderly or young kids), being a DJ, riding a motorcycle, mountain biking, surfing, longboarding, tennis, gardening, volleyball, learning the hippie massage techniques, being a photographer, learning magic tricks, stand up comedy, joining a choir, rock climbing. Heck some of the stuff women love is so easy and cheap and you can learn a lot from hippies (drum circles, massage, yoga) Just having a National Parks Pass for $80 makes a man really attractive. If he has a job, he can just buy countless groupons.

guys can learn this stuff faster with more intensity, because he has testosterone. Women like and need the social aspect of group classes. Guys also love to be out of the house, and if they get out they will learn all these skills plus how women communicate, body language, allusion, intonation, facial expressions, and he will see the difference between the virtual world women (people) present and reality.

So a guy can develop his social circle, and gain way more confidence in everything. Women unfortunately can not make themselves younger and more fertile, which everyone hates to admit, guys and society value. And for an American guy young fertile women are a plane ride away.