I also know a guy who played baseball at BYU, Warren Pino, has a dance studio and a cute, young Indonesian/Chinese wife. And countless young, cute women who come to his studio.

I know a guy from Pocatello, Idaho, dorky, skinny rock climber has an acro yoga studio countless gorgeous fit women walking in and out his door.

Know another guy I used to mountain bike with is like 50 has the dance studio all the jr. college girls, the UC Davis girls, the Sac State girls, the Chico State girls love. The have all the close dances, Tango, Zouk, West Coast Swing and Blues, tons of Blues.

A guy should just do a hobby men love, jiu jitsu, motocycles, kiteboarding, etc. then a hobby women love that make him more attractive volunteering, amateur chef, writer, etc.

Then do his job he will kill it.

The problem a lot of these ladies have is they do things they find attractive in a man, Masters degrees, PhDs, traveling, buying a house, owning dogs, ballroom dance, marathons and half marathons. These things are fine and good for their mental healthy, they do not however make them more attractive to a man.

My beloved cooked for me, cleaned, taught me how to use spices, was affectionate, a great listener, hospitable and good with kids. She just addressed my needs, so I needed her, and I met her indirectly by helping one of her horrible co workers. She was also young enough to have kids, thin and a lot more physically attractive than me.

She has degrees, has traveled, speaks languages, has a lot of talents, and those had almost no bearing on me deciding to pursue her or not take up with the other options of women

The thing is at BYU you get programmed to get a high quality grad degree as a path of success in church leadership and women etc. then you step out in the world and you see practically homeless dudes pulling beautiful girls in their van as they surf, read tarot cards, astrology, thai massage, organic food or whatever

And you are like what? These practically homeless dudes have been pulling multiple beautiful women this WHOLE time!

Also career girls in Colombia, Mexico City, Poland, Slovakia, and the Ukraine are pretty friendly, dress great and the small town girls are even better (if you are American).

Heck even my mom on her mission in Hong Kong had a Filipino lady take care of her (divorce is illegal in the Fillipines) and entire wards of Filipino ladies, and she thinks any guy would be smart to get a Filipino.