The next day so that I could give her some mail and a few other things that she left at my place before we broke up.

I don’t know how she got my room number but I’m guessing she said that she was staying with me and left to go get something and forgot the room number. I have been shocked how often that’s worked for me (but to actually get in to my own room, not someone else’s)….they just give it to me often with a new key card if I ask. Creepy. Either way she’s a scam artist so I’m not at all amazed how she was able to do it.

I’m sorry to hear you experienced something similar….if you were dealing with a pathological cluster B individual then you can predict with certainty for every relationship what will happen or how things went down. The abusive cycle is always the same…the fascinating thing is how it’s instinctual….they didn’t go to cluster B school and learn how to be a professional abuser. It’s just that someone with a certain brain wiring will behave just like a computer program. Fascinating and freaky.