Feel about it…
It doesn’t matter what members feel about it, if non-members hate it than it would be wise to call them something else like…
Minorities (that sounds worse to me, especially the double minority trend)
Unmembers
Not-members
People we’re “extra nice to”
Members of another faith
Special friends
Drinking friends
Freak, I don’t know it all sounds bad, let’s just call them by their actual name…