This isn't LaVell or Chow with their politics and favoritism to their own recruits or upperclassman status. What you see on the field is the best we have. How else do you explain Coats starting over Jory and Olomua? This is a new era. Not perfect but grounded in the real world and how things really work.
When your son gets his first job, will his employer be sympathetic to a "I didn't know about that deadline or that bylaw" plea? I think not. Cade and Cade's Mom, welcome to the real world. Enjoy....